triple post Life moves on. Wedding becoming distractingly close. Interviewing celebrants - which is a process fraught with danger... i mean, how do these people come up with their fees? It's not like there's some easily quantifiable difference in the service that they provide.. so when you like two of them, and one's two hundred pacific pesos more than the other do you:

a) throw fiscal responsibility to the wind and go with the one you like (i mean, it's not like we're going to do this again, and we Might As Well Have The Best), or do you

b) be Responsible With Your Money, and go with the cheaper one, even though she wasn't exactly right and you're frankly a little worried about what she's going to wear?

And above all else - who the hell is going to wear the bee costume?